Wednesday, March 25, 2009

I don't understand

I am waiting to see baby fung arrives next Monday and I am glad I have gone through the tough time and settled down now. I know I should maintain a peaceful mind to welcome my baby...but I just don't understand some people can say something bad to you while you are pregnant who is so rude. I think in this world only she can do this to her family.

Today I received a call from HER, she said her friend has sent me a baby gift since she is a very good friend to that person, blah blah blah - it's a brand new baby bedding set. She asked me to pick it up from her these few days, however I am not able to go too far away to pick it up and told her that she can leave it there later as I currently have baby bedding sheets to use, so it's not urgent to pick it up. However, she suddenly said "oh it's a very pretty gift!", I replied "oh really? i also have some nice ones that i can use it at the moment", then she said "If you already have the bedding available, then you don't need it and I shall use it for my own...", I felt so frustrated when she said that...what the hell she can use the baby bedding for her own as she is an adult??? And what's her intention to say this to me, if someone sent a gift to me and she can take it home??? My hubby said she is mad at me and that's why she says this...which I agreed totally as she used to do this to me.

I just have no idea...so i replied "ok, if you think the gift is suitable to you, u go ahead!" and I hang up the phone. My hubby told me not to take it so seriously as we know she always acts like that. However, to me, I think if she is my family, how could she say this to me now? When she says this, has she ever think of my feelings??? no I don't think she will and she will never try to understand other's feelings, she remains selfish as usual. I am disappointed to her behaviours again, so odd.