Weddings

Attended two weddings this week, they both are unbelievably touching! One wedding is my best friend's wedding, the couple have been together 15 years and finally they get married, I can see how happy and joyful they are. They have been experienced so many ups and downs which I also witnessed their love life myself. I just can't describe how happy I am for them seeing them to get married finally.

Another wedding I was so touched by the couple's effort to make the ceremony so cozy and warm. They are perfect couple, one is pretty and one is smart. And they went to a studio to record a song and contribute to their parents in the wedding. I was so touched by their love, the feeling is so warm.

May I wish these two couples "Love forever, no matter sad or happy, respect and love each other in their lives, blessings with them always".

Laugh

Tonight I have a very nice gathering with bro and sis, it's just a simple and warm gathering. We have so much fun tonight, we laugh a lot! It's just wonderful to laugh...I think I have not laughed freely for long I guess. It's wonderful and cheerful! Wishing everyone is cheerful, wearing the smiley faces everyday!

Mysterious

Some people do things mysteriously, you will never understand their motives and they may never tell you. If you meet someone like this, i would suggest you try to stay away from them whenever possible, it's so exhausting to deal with them. However, in most situations, you have no choice but have to deal with them directly.

Hmm...how to deal with them? May be you have to make yourself mysterious too in order to deal with them...try to be nonsense (no logic behind), try not to care anything related to this kind of people, they can drive you nuts and make your life miserable. Remember to pamper yourself now...life is too short!

A different birthday

Today is a very different birthday to me. I bought myself a birthday cake (the first time in my life) and shared with my lovely colleagues while anti WTO demonstrations were happening around us, bought myself some little gifts when I was wondering at PP, grab an afternoon tea at M Kee by myself, receiving SMS from my best friends, one of them sent me a Donald Duck in the SMS which made me happy, "Sand Chai Keung" kindly bought me a new mobile phone as birthday gift, having dinner at Korean restaurant, seeing massaging chairs at department store...

I missed the birthday dinner with my best friends, my families, I love them so much.
Look at this, my OWN birthday cake (chcolate mousse), yummy!!!

Special thanks to Sand Chai Keung sponsoring my mobile phone and be patience with me, millions of thanks to my best friends who are so caring to me, countless thanks to my grandparents, Daddy and Mom, Uncle Four and my cousins who remember my birthday...I love you all. My tears are coming down, I am so thankful!!! I really love you all.

A choice between work harder or lazy

Universal truth is that if you do not work hard, you will not get the result that you want (little kid do understand this too).This is true to love, friendship, study, work and every aspect of your life.

To maintain relationships between your partners, friends, family and the ones you care and love, you have to work hard and give out your caring and heart, then it will grow. Just like caring of your plant, you know you have to water your plant, fertilize it, show it under sunshine, cut the yellow leaves and keep doing all these actions (these actions are not just actions, they include your heart and caring). And you will find your plant grow so fast, so strong and so beautiful!

It's a very simple thing, right? Think about if we are lazy, we do not water and care the plant anymore, expecting it will grow on its own or expecting someone will help you to maintain your plant...friends, let's work hard and don't be lazy.

Another star of the month (a week after XX stop)

I tell myself to write something at the morning of Dec15th to memorize.

I got two small surprises in advance on Dec 14th. I received the first "Happy Birthday" from my friend on the phone on Dec 14th, when she said that to me, I just could not able to react right away coz it's very unexpected (dun know why).

And the second surprise is that my friend asked me "What is your birthday wish?", oh, I never thought about that...so at that moment, my brain is working hard to get the answer for this question. Can I have more than one birthday wish? I want to stay happy, healthy and stay close to God, finishing my study nice and fast, clearing all my rubbish very soon.

If I can only have one birthday wish, I wish I can stay happy I guess.

Fancy again

I heard someone bought a $8000 LV handbag and a pair of boots at $7000, it's a WOW for me!!

This reminds me the movie "Pretty Woman". The most fascinating part for me at that time was Richard Gere brought Julia Roberts to different brand shops to shop, it's the first WOW for me! Julia does not need to pay a penny for the nice evening gown, shoes, dresses, handbags, jewellery...ha ha ha...the reality is I never fancy this would happening to me coz I am not Julia Roberts in the movie(u know what i mean!) plus I know I am not that kind person who enjoy that much, I feel shy and guilty if someone offer this to me (believe it or not)...but if this happens to me once (even in the dream), that would be fun...ha ha ha!!

OK, dream over. Now I really fancy a relaxing and nice vacation where I can just sleep, eat, go to a cooking or dancing class and wonder around freely, no phone calls, leaving all worries behind. Yeah...I think deep inside me I am still a jet setter!

Proof

Just watched the movie "Proof" yesterday, it's not a great movie but it worths to think through the idea brought by this movie. If you trust someone, no matter what you say or do, there is no need to get a proof, you just trust him or her. However, if you do not trust someone, you will need to get proof to prove that he or she is honest.

Some stuff you can prove in this world but some cannot be proved...like love. How to prove you love someone? How to prove you are honest? There are stuff like that you can't bring out any physical proof...what can you do? Life can be hard if you want to get proof on everything. But how can you lie to yourself?

Bbbbusy

Busy is the useful weapon to refuse someone. You can use it to turn down any requests, say dinner, meeting or a date. Busy can cut off all communication with someone. Just say "Busy" and the other person will know that he or she needs to stop communicating with you, how convenient and easy to use!!

轉寄: 真正愛你的男人

今天朋友轉寄了一篇email, 值得看看...究竟你見過這樣的男人未? 我諗都係你男友or老公...有都幾sweet啦!!! 不過買棉花那一項也有點可怕, 才不用他幫你買啦! 佢幫你買都有點支持不了啊! "偷偷的為妳做了很多事，卻從來不和你邀功的人" 豈不是可愛到不得了?

真正愛你的男人，是 ....
抱起來很溫暖，囉唆起來很煩，在身邊討厭，看不見又很懷念的人。
吃剩下一半的麵不要浪費，他會接過去幫妳吃乾淨的人。
大冰腳貼在他大腿弄暖，他即使很冷，也不會把妳腳踢開的人。
一起去大賣場買東西，總是比妳多提兩大袋，還要空出手牽妳的人。
逛街，總是從頭到尾『良性勸導』妳不要亂花錢的人。
月經來，抓到妳偷吃紅豆冰，會很生氣罵妳的人。
妳生大病，他卻比你還要辛苦的人。
出門前，妳相信他的眼光多於鏡子的一個人。
把買衛生棉已經當成每個月記得採買的男人。
吵完架做錯事，還會厚臉皮跑來牽妳手的人。
過了N週年的戀愛紀念日後，就會忘記情人節、聖誕節存在的人。
為了看現場轉播的棒球大聯盟，敢把可愛的妳推到旁邊涼的人。
很少送妳花，卻常愛送妳垃圾袋、衛生棉、水果...的人。
沒事一定會窩在妳家，有事還是窩在妳家，讓妳開始懷疑他是不是沒有朋友的人。
最喜歡看妳開心的大笑，然後也對著妳傻笑的人。
漏接妳電話，就會打爆妳手機的人。
養妳吃飯、養妳看電影、養妳買小東西，動不動就開始為以後練習怎樣包養妳的人。
最害怕討厭聽到妳啜泣，只要聽到妳哭，還是會不辭千里的飛奔到妳身邊的人。
偷偷的為妳做了很多事，卻從來不和你邀功的人。
已經認為自己的手臂是枕頭的人。
膽敢會和妳搶遙控器，最後卻只能陪妳看慾望城市的人。
老是可以讓周遭好朋友感到好奇的人。
他一不在，妳就會心煩意亂心不在焉，而開始很想念他的人 ...
親愛的女人...
你身邊若有這樣一個男人...妳一定要珍惜...

Little things

This is to memorize the warm little things that happened to me this week...just a simple "greetings" SMS can make me feel great. Just a little chat can make me feel good. Just a little bit of caring can make people feel so good. I appreciate your gentle caring and loving!

世事無常

今天在街上碰到一個朋友. 他与太太結婚2年, 刚刚上年才誕下一個BB仔, 現在已經1歲多. 可惜的這個朋友今天跟我說他們刚離婚, 他說遲一點再跟我詳談. 那一刻真的很感慨, 為什麼呢? 還有一個無辜的小孩. 成年人, 結婚是一生一世的約, 不是玩啊! 既是決定一起, 有問題不是一起去努力解決麼? 真的無辦法麼? 或者Promise 的定意已經改變了, 再不是大家努力去維繫, 有困難便說bye bye, 太兒嬉了! 還有無辜的小孩...這個世代的價值觀真的不同了, 大家請努力吧!

Speechless

Lost my voice for 2 days. Feeling helpless and uesless...not able to work properly at work, home or anywhere. Everyone told me "Don't speak.", my client said "Oh, you lost your voice, take care". I replied "thank q..." not sure if they heard what i have said.

Friend reminds me today "Silence is gold". This can be true in some situations...but when will I speak again? That's worrying...I am speechless...

A choice

Last week I had a horrible experience in the lift. When I was going out for lunch with Chu Goo Luck on the lift. The lift suddenly jumped from 13th floor to 10th floor and shaking. I was so panic and started to grasp my colleague's arm, I am so scarced. At that moment, my mind was thinking "Will I die here?" for a second. Thankful to God, we were safe at last by stepping out from the lift on 9th floor.

After arrived safely on earth, Chu Goo Luck said to me "Life is unpredictable like this, you never know what happen to you tomorrow or the next few minutes, why not choose to stay happy and enjoy things now?" . Indeed, a word of wisdom to remind myself.

Lose weight

I found myself lose weight these few weeks coz now I can fit into a tiny skirt and tiny jeans which I was not able to wear them before. Moreover, I found that my current pants are loose to wear. To certain point, that's good news- i can wear those clothes that I thought I could not wear them before. The bad news is I lose weight - I look like a skinny skeleton more now.

You will never found how pressure can affect a person's health. So try not to give too much pressure to yourself. I guess I am the victim of giving myself too much pressure on work, study and life.

Dear Friends, no matter what, I wish we all can stay healthy and happy. Love yourself.

Woman/Man in love

When woman in love, she looks sweet and pretty (at least in most cases it is true).
When man in love, he looks carefree and fat (at least half the cases it is true).

When woman in love, she accepts all "yuk ma" words without hesitation.
When man in love, he speaks all those "yuk ma" words without hesitation.

When woman in love, she thinks the world is just two of them.
When man in love, he thinks the world is too small...

Love needs mutual understanding, patience, time, effort to keep.
Love is carefree, warm, trust, honest, respect...right?

Boss and Me

Working late at office tonight with my boss. Since 6pm to 8pm, we have not talked to each other and we seems like not noticing each other even existed. Then he suddenly came over to me and said "Oh, I can't stand anymore." and I said "Why are u still here?". He looked at me with a surprise expression "I was working!". I said "Me too". Ha ha ha...then he told me to leave soon and asked me to take time off soon (but he adds on that there is no way I can get it next week coz my Director is coming to visit us). So...it's a kind of "bullshit" between us...anyway, I just don't know what is he doing in office...may be it's the "Strategic" things, who knows?

Please...

Please shut your mouth if you are talking nonsense.
Please say yes or keep quiet if you have no idea.
Please close your eyes if you don't want to see it.
Please try not to feel too much if you are too sensitive.
Please keep your words if you did say it.
Please be good to the ones if you really love them.
Please be honest if you are not a lier.
Please stay happy if life is too short.

Please, please, please...

Brainwash

Brainwash you are going to have a better future with you current job.
Brainwash you are going to have a nice home to stay in the coming years.
Brainwash you are confident to face everyone in this world.
Brainwash you are pretty and intelligent.
Brainwash you are friendly and nice.
Brainwash you are honest and sincere.
Brainwash you will have someone (at least 1) to understand you in this world.
Brainwash you will always feel peaceful and happy.

Note: Brainwash is only be used when you find that you are not able to do something successfully. It is only a tool, please do not brainwash yourself that this is the truth.

Simple World

My world is simple and I always live in a simple world, my family, my friends, they are all genuine and simple. I am tired and feeling helpless in handling complicated things in the complicated world. No more mind game. I am freaking tired...I have been thinking too much for myself and others, too much that I can't breathe. I care too much, care too much if I can affect others, care too much if I let people down, care if I make people unhappy...

Too much...too much...I want to go home, the place that I can feel safe.

New Year Plan 2006

Speculating my plan for 2006. Time flies so fast and I realized I have gone through a lot of things this year in 2005. I met so many new people, returned to God, finished a lof of assignments, travel, nervous breakdown, depression, broke, etc...ha ha.

Now I have a new year plan in 2006 - it's learning some new hobbies!! May be when a person is getting older, we need to learn new things to keep going...ballroom dancing, salsa, tennis, golf, swimming, guitar, drums, painting, blah blah blah...

That's all I want to do...you may think what a big plan!!! Little achievements can make me happy. What is your new year plan?

Better Man

"Better Man" Lyrics

Send someone to love me
I need to rest in arms
Keep me safe from harm, in pouring rain

Give me endless summer
Lord I fear the cold
Feel I'm getting old. Before my time

As my soul heals the shame
I will grow through this pain
Lord I'm doing all I can
To be a better man

Go easy on my conscience
'Cause it's not my fault
I know I've been taught
To take the blame

Rest assured my angels
Will catch my tears
Walk me out of here
I'm in pain

As my soul heals the shame
I will grow through this pain
Lord I'm doing all I can
To be a better man

Once you've found that lover
You're homeward bound
Love is all around
Love is all around

I know some have fallen
On stony ground
But Love is all around

HE

There is a song that always come to my mind...the pieces of melody and lyrics always pop out to my mind when I am quietly thinking...

HE can turn the tide and calm the angry sea.
.........
He keeps watch all through all of your lonely nights.
HE still find the time to hear a child's first prayer.
.........
Though it makes HIM sad to see the way we live.
HE always say I Forgive. I Forgive.

It's the best and most touching song I ever heard when I was in secondary school. God forgive us again and again. Where else you could find a love like this in the world?

Just don't know how to find out the whole piece of lyrics. Cibi crab & TY, I know you must remember this song, right? I am sure we sang this song when we were in the choir...

Hairy Crabssssssss

Just a week ago I had a fabulous dinner at home eating Hairy Crabs. It's the best season to eat hairy crab now. We bought the big ones and there are so many "Ko" inside...i finished 4 crabs and could not finish any other dishes.

I finally found eating hairy crabs can be exhausting. It needs special techniques and tools to eat it if you want to enjoy it. Special thanks to Pilot for helping me to open the 4 crabs and to my dearest Father as he is the one who treats me this fabulous dinner. Be thankful!

信還是不信?

要真正信任一個人絕對不容易, 信任是需要雙方付出effort 去印證. 你若要別人信任, 必先要行動去証明你是可靠的. 沒有可靠的行動, 再說任何美麗的說話也是枉然. 人實在是善變的, 大家請努力, 認真誠實的去對待你身邊的人, 不要令他們對你失去信心啊!

A day to remember

Per someone request, I need to remind myself to remember today. Mr. Sound Chai Keung has passed me a wet tissue and a dry tissue for me to clean my mouth after enjoying a tea set today. Be thankful!

Chocolate on Chocolate

These two days I just feel like eating chocolate and could not stop myself from taking it everyday. Yesterday I found a very very delicious chocolate cake at the cafe at Island Shangri-la - the chocolate cake is called "Frou Frou" and it's chocolate outside, chocolate mousse and clunchy biscuit inside. It taste so nice and not too sweet. I love it so much!!

Coincidentally, while I am hunger for chocolate these days, my professor from the States has bought me a small box of assorted chocolate this week, they are so lovely and delicious. How can you get away from this temptation?

@office

Instead of everything go blank for me yesterday, I started to concentrate sooo much @ office. I stucked there until 11pm tonight...trying to meet the deadline. Since my CPU is burning, I wrote down the wrong date in one document to my client this morning, and she called me and laugh with me together because she knows my CPU is burning...we laughed for over 1 minutes on the phone!
I love this client.

Go Blank

Works keep piling up on the desk. Thousands of emails to reply everyday and you are so sure that they are never-ending. Talked to colleague and we are not too sure what are we talking about together, we are so swamped.

Found that at one point today, I just sit still in front of my computer and my mind went blank for a few minutes. My CPU was burning and it could not process at the moment...needs to be rebooted I guess.

Looking forward

I am looking forward to Autumn. Weather gets cooler and I will feel happier.
I am looking forward to December. Work is less and I can take vacation.
I am looking forward to graduate. No more worries and pressure.
I am looking forward to vacation. No work and only play.
I am looking forward to 2006. I think it will be a new start for me. Can I?

SMS by mistake

今早正當等緊早餐之際, 突然收到SMS, 係我一個住在印尼的一個朋友仔, 佢個SMS 係用印尼文打"kis,...". 嚇得我呀! 有個kis字...唔洗一分鐘佢再send SMS來道歉, 佢手快快send 錯SMS 比我.
我唔知点解重好開心佢send 錯野比我, 錯有錯着, 我地咪互相問候一番, 講下Disney HK...錯send的SMS也將人拉近一点呢!

失眠++

昨晚我在牀上又眼光光, 左轉右轉還是眼光光. 差不多睡着又醒番, 於是咪走去開個MP3聽歌...模模糊糊咁又到起牀時間. 唔知呢次失眠係咪因為晚餐飲了中國茶呢? 定係我唔多妥?

温柔的你

昨天不約而同被兩個新認識朋友讚我"gentle and nice"...真的多謝她們! 我自己也在想, 我真的温柔好nice 嗎? 你話呢? 哈哈...我想我都pass啦, 以前做過一些personality test, 我是一個peacemaker同注重people aspect 的人, 所以一點也不"三尖八角". 但温柔這兩個字着實是一個好大的compliment, 不容易呢!

I am tired!

我真的很倦, 說不出的倦…還有很多...
很想出外走走, 跟我的好安達一起去! My wish is as simple as that!! 中秋節又到啦, 又係時候食月餅…我要無簧白蓮蓉架!

流沙 Everything's Gone

流沙
詞：娃娃 曲：陶吉吉

並不是真的路過而已
也不是真的不會想你
全都不是真的是騙自己
其實還愛你愛著你

我以為我早想清楚 不由自主恍恍惚惚
又走回頭路 再看一眼有過的幸福

愛情好像流沙我不掙扎
隨它去吧 我不害怕
愛情好像流沙 心裡的牽掛
不願放下 OH BABY 讓我這樣吧

愛情好像流沙 我不說話
等待黑暗 讓淚能落下
愛情好像流沙 明知該躲它
無法自拔 OH BABY 是我太傻

是一再的做 一再的錯不由我
我一步一步一步一步 慢慢走向流沙

一隻我聽極都唔厭的歌, 一隻我重覆聽到殘的CD...

栗子頭黑眼線

每日早上行走堅道的巴士上, 有一位上班的斯文男子, 每天都gel一個栗子形的髮形, 再看多兩眼, 他雙眼畫了深黑色的眼線...Jean Paul Gautier?

今天又是新的開始, 要努力收拾心情做野啦! 雖然有倦意, 也要努力過每一天, 要開心D至得! Hopefully!

衷心感激

好開心呀! 多謝各位Friends 支持我, 我沒有想過你地咁爽快就向我 say yes 架! 我真係好感動啊! 30 號見啦! I love you!

無題

我很少會害怕一個人 (以前大學時期也遇過一次), 我的直覺一直都蠻準, 這次確實令我很不自然, 那種threatening 的感覺是很強烈, 我會手震想躲開. 我跟自己說 no big deal, 自問從來沒有主勳去找煩惱但它偏要衝着我來. 由它go ahead 啦!Let the bird fly…釋懷了吧! 我真的再沒有多餘精力去應付了, 我很倦啊!

The Real You

Will you hide your "real you" from showing them out to others? I never hide my real me and my feelings coz' I don't know how to pretend. And one day I found myself too "crystal clear" to others, that's my weakness...sigh!

Contact lens

Where is my contact len on my right eye? I think I have been taking it out but now I am not sure if I have taken out yet...it looks like it's been taken out but I am not sure coz' i can't find the len anywhere...this is scary...I looked at my right eye in the mirror, it looks like it's been taken out...ai ya...

What if the contact len still exist on your right eyes for more than one day and then forever...I think I better ask someone tomorrow morning "Can you see there is a contact len on my right eye?"

Boney M

今早坐的士去中環機鐵站check-in, 在的士途中, 的士叔叔播住Boney M 的經典名曲 "Sunny", 我心裏想的士叔叔梗係聽梗收音機啦. 點知下一首係Boney M的Ma Baker, 再來多隻Daddy Cool...哈哈! 心裏想的士叔叔咁有taste, 佢係成隻Boney M 精選CD放在的士內播...oops...弊! 我有跟住隻Ma Baker 哼"Ma ma ma ma, Ma Baker, she taught her four sons...ma ma ma ma, Ma Baker to handle their guns..." 我...我BB仔時巳經聽爸爸D Boney M 歌架啦...嘻嘻!

Sweet Dream?

昨晚睡得很差, 做了兩個惡夢, 之後便睡不着了. 於是今天早上6時便起身返工, 心裏不停的聽自己relax 一點, 只是做夢吧了…吃個醒晨早餐會否好一點? 快D放個假會否好一點? 什麼都不理會否好一點? 我係唔係比壓力自己? 我也不太清楚…我唔要咁後生就要食太太口服液呀…或者我要做番吓運動會好一點. 唔通學阿婆話齋發惡夢係因為熱氣?

情意結

原來我都有D情意結, 我才刚刚發現架咋! Sales呀, 宇宙大王呀, 買野呀, 收集垃圾呀, 軟硬呀...數數吓都唔少...

我隻kaekae而家好靚女啊! 大個女, 性感"油墨"啊!

sunshine

Here comes the sunshine today...tears falling down.
Glad to see Kae Kae is growing, when u point at her, she will shake her head...cute!

Countdown

6 more days to go...Singapore, I am coming!!! It's been ten months since I was there.
I miss my friends in Singapore.I miss the time that I am carefree in somewhere else. My Singapore friend said that I should try the Durian mooncake in Singapore this time, it's very special that I can't find it in HK. I am looking forward to EAT!

I miss sunshine!!

When will the rain stop? When will I see sunshine again? It's dark everyday...how discouraging!!!!! I already have more than 4 pairs of shoes soaked in rain water last week...may be we should get the "yellow boots" which might be better.

When You're Smiling

When you’re smiling, when you’re smiling,
The whole world smiles with you;
When you’re laughing, when you’re laughing,
The sun comes shining through.

But when you’re crying you bring on the rain,
So stop your sigh – ing, be happy again.

Keep on smiling, cause when you’re smiling,
The whole world smiles with you.

Words & music by Mark Fisher, Joe Goodwin & Larry Shay, 1928

I like the versions sang by Billie Holiday and the one by Louis Armstrong.
Isn't it the lyris nice and simple? You can listen to it when you feel blue.

Chilli Hot Dog & Juicy Hamburger!!!

忽然間我很想吃chilli hot dog. 還想起幾年前同成班朋友去Florida玩, 我地係酒店附近發現一間小小的hotdog店, 那是我第一次嘗到美味無比的chilli hot dog, 除了有隻hot dog 係個飽入面, 最精彩係個chilli 肉碎sauce, 呢隻汁绝對係隻chilli hot dog 既精華所在. 返到香港, 好難搵到好味的chilli hot dog, 我依希記得係荷里活道附近有一開小小的hotdog店, 那裏的味道也算不錯, 可以頂住少少我對chilly hot dog 既欲望.

提到hotdog, 我又想起hamburger, 絕對同M記無關, 我要講既係香港至好味的hamburger...就係在金鐘西武地窖Great入面那個hamburger store (sorry 忘記了名字). 那裏的hamburger 漢堡牛肉內有美味肉汁, 配料又多, 好juicy架! Yummy...我好想而家就去食呀!

Good news again

Hurray! Yeah! Kae Kae finally grows, have you noticed that? It grows ears and legs now. And you may not notice that I have put a lot of effort to make it grow, I have failed many times in the past few months...so now I can say "who never fail?".

I am pleased to see the success after failure, no words can describe it. Please allow me to say a special thanks to TY chai and TY mom, they have offered me a lot of comments and encouragement. Yeah!

who never fails?

If you fail again and again, you may choose to try again, you may give up or you may never do it again. Failure can hurt, I am not sure if hurt can be recovered or not, I guess it depends on whether you have the courage to overcome it or not, rite?

Good News

I have several good news today. One is my Kae Kae started to grow today, it will grow the legs soon, no need to "lang" anymore. I will work harder! The second good news is I watched a very good movie "Charlie and the Chocolate Factory" very touching and highly recommended to kids. The third is...I am so thankful to God's bless! God said " I will never abandon you".

Safe in A Crazy World

好耐無走入HMV逛, 今日早上十點半就情不自禁走入去吸吓少少音樂气息.今次發現有新血, 就是一個唱作人名字叫Corrinne May, 一位擁有優雅嗓子的新加坡人, 她有非常strong的音樂background, 後來更在美國被音樂人所賞識, "Safe in a Crazy World" 是她首張個人album...我正正被她的聲線及melody 所吸引, 淨聽頭兩首歌我就在CD架上拿去cashier 付錢帶她回家!! 有機會你都去聽下啦!

You keep me flying, you keep me smiling
You keep me safe in a crazy world
You understand me, embrace my fragility
You keep me safe in a crazy world
And in your arms I find the strength
To believe in me again
- "Safe in a Crazy World"

榴槤飄香

尋日lunch時同同事去買佐個20大元的金枕頭返office食, 我地用左5分鐘係office conference room 度徹徹底底咁"處理"左個金枕頭, 目的是为了消滅任何證據. 個枕頭真係好甜好香, 我地食完重感覺滿足左大半日, 好開心呢! 食個榴槤都可以開心一日架!

放假之"精神衰弱"

想放假, 但係唔記得自己銀行户口有幾多錢, 唔知自己幾時完成功課同proposal, 唔知自已想去邊"暑"放假, 唔知同唔記得重要既野, 淨係知道個腦裝住Ｄ無謂野同埋開始精神衰弱...咁又話番轉頭, 咁既情形, 都好應該去放下假, 如果唔係, 我都同TY一樣"快要爆炸"啦!

放假之"痴心妄想"

時間好似過得好慢...幾時至可以離開一陣呀! 我好頭痛呀...我仲未寫完份proposal, 真係一波未平一波又起, 点去放假呢? 嗚嗚...

我想放假呀!

我真的很倦啊! 我好想放假呀! 淨係比我3日, 睡到中午, 起身悠悠閑食個早餐,跟住望住個靚沙灘,攤係度曬太陽, 有陣陣海風吹, 再叫番杯冰涼什果汁, 熱熱地又跳落水浸下...肚餓食番個多汁既double 芝士hamburger...返酒店冲個涼又到晚餐時間, 食個海鮮大餐, 飲少少ice wine, high high 地, 赤脚又走去沙灘吹吹風, 望下月光. 最好酒店房有露台有張搖搖椅...坐上去搖搖下入睡!

無憂無慮, 無拘無束3日, 夫復何求!! 呀...

Charlie And the Chocolate Factory

期待已的Johnny Depp and Tim Burton 又來啦! 今日同事"朱古luck" email 左Johnny Depp係呢套戲入面的poster 比我, 於是即刻登入套戲的official website 睇睇. 發現呢個故仔好熟, 故事講 Johnny Depp 演的 Willy Wonka 係一間朱古力廠主人, 因年紀大要找繼承人主持朱告力廠, 於是發起一個contest - 任何人在他廠所製的chocolate bar內找到golden ticket就可以參加比賽...當然最後由一個善良而貧困的主腳 Charlie Bucket 勝出.

我相信Tim Burton 套戲畫面一定好豐富as usual (淨睇個website都可以知道). 加埋 Johnny Depp 就真的"depp"得杯落 (sorry! 粗俗左ＤＤ), 我想呢個故仔係話比人知, 要是你太自負, 太依賴, 太貪心最終都失敗. 做人應該要善良正直至得架, 係咪?

Your Eye

在一個細小的辦公室, 如果你有一個好自私的同事跟你天天見 (仲多過你見自己父母), 都咪話唔煩! 你當然可以唔好點理佢, 不過, 如果佢有日染了一種"不知名" 病菌(actually 淨係佢自己知係乜但佢唔話你知)and then 照返工, 你見到佢隻右眼又紅又腫又水汪汪, 仲話比你知佢呢隻菌會腐蝕佢隻眼的 outer layer 直至全部蝕晒等再生番層新layer 至會好...仲話比你知醫生比佢5日sick leave, and then又話呢隻菌只有在共用毛巾先至會傳染...你會有何感想?

T Y 話仲唔快D 1:99 !! Hope it's not "e bor lai"! 唯有一日洗幾十次手, 又唔敢掂自己塊面囉! 小心駛得萬年船啊!

@bangkok

Here I am @ Bangkok. Time flies so fast and today it's my 3rd day here. Things are going well and I have no worries about my work so far, thanks for God's blessings. I enjoy my time here, no rush to do things and I can relax at the hotel after work. Glad that I met a nice new friend from India here, she is mature and funny to hang out with. We share jokes, life talk and we have a great time tonight...we share a bottle of red wine and went to the Steak House at the hotel having delicious Lamb Chop!!

In this trip, I also has a great dinner with my "yiu yan" cousin and his friend here in Bangkok while he is having his vacation in town coincidentally. Eveything is so great and smooth here...dear all, don't worry, i did not shop crazy, no time to shop and so...don't expect I got souvenirs for everyone...ha ha ha!

Family Day

很久都沒有試過好relax咁大吃大喝, 大前日晚上約了爸爸一pair同埋哎呀舅父仔1pair去食日本菜, 我地一口氣食4磅三文魚, 一隻sashimi船, 雞軟骨, 牛油果軟殼蟹shusi, 燒魚,海膽呀...哎呀唔記得咁多啦! 我地一路食一路傾一路笑, 加埋幾杯碑酒到肚, 真的非常之舒暢!! 我真係好開心啊! 真係要好好珍借愛護你的家人...

My Dearest Grandpa

For me, the most repectful man on earth is my Grandpa. I love him coz he is the one who brought me up since i was a baby. He is the one who spoils and teaches me. He knows everything about me and he is the one who always have patience on me no matter what happened. He loves me coz I am the only one grandchild he bought up and he has hope on me. He loves me in every single details in my life.

Recently, i was so touched by one little thing he did to me. As I have told everyone at home that I will go for a business trip to Bangkok soon, one day when I returned home, I found there were two travel guide books about Bangkok on my table. Without hesitation, I can tell it's my Grandpa's great work. How could he be so considerate and so lovely? My tears almost run out at that moment...and I went to him and said wholeheartedly "Thank you, grandpa". He is so happy that I appreciate his great work.

Love is appreciate and being appreaciated, rite?

I miss you

Suddenly I found myself missing so much of my Mom and Dad. So I picked up my phone and called my Mom, my mom picked up the phone and asked me "What's up?", I replied "Nothing, I just feel that I miss you so much." This is the very first time I do that and I feel so comfortable. Ok, I am going to call my Dad when he returns this week, I miss you so much!!!

A smile and a laugh

Don't know why I laugh a lot today, from morning to night when i am talking to my colleagues, my friends or clients. It's a pretty good exercise though. And i try to put a smile on my face most of the day, it works! I mean it makes life easier and happier. Let's remind ourselves to do this all the time.

Jet Setter 遊遊蕩蕩

Jet Setter的 business trip終於來啦! 跟上次trip 距離已經有5個月時間, 其實現在已經沒以往那種興奮的心情, 取而代之的是一種"無セ特別"的feeling. 可能自己真的開始對business trip 麻木了, 也習慣了自己一個人在陌生地方take care自己, 自己一個人做野, 食飯, 遊蕩...直至感覺自己有少少口臭就會走去同hotel staff 講野, 有時遇著健談的clients 都不錯, 個口無咁臭啊! 最開心一次在新加坡, 遇到5個好玩的clients, 大家約埋夜晚一起出去大吃Sri Lanka Pepper Crab (好大隻架)再直落去聽Jazz, 真係幾開心, 起碼自己一個人去唔到食Pepper crab 呀, 咁大隻!

用鼻唱歌

話說昨晚家裏的一肥一瘦小朋友在對話, 是關于阿廋小學畢業禮上的詩歌班在唱歌, 她說"阿Miss鄭好犀利架, 可以用鼻音唱歌啊!", 於是乎那個正在低頭畫畫的幼稚園大size的小肥很不經意地答到"唱歌應該用咀至arm架!"...天真無邪, 好鬼cute啊!

你好厲害!

請不要再裝模作樣了. 你為什麼要那麼奸狡的對待別人? 你覺得開心嗎? 我想你一定是開心, 否則你都唔會這樣做啦! 我真的很怕你呢 (表面上我是不怕的), 我完全無殺傷力,我只是一個簡單的普通人, 請你手下留情!

一對腳

Kae Kae 仔, 你幾時好似TY仔生番對腳行快Ｄ啦? 我已經好努力咁去feed你架啦, 點解你重係長不大呢? 第時比TY仔"恰"時, 你都有對腳去起飛腳or走快Ｄ嘛! 如果見到你有少少成長, 我都會好安慰! God blessed.

Relax, please!

經常提醒自己不要太認真, 要是自已對人對事都有要求也是令人很吃力啊! 但係有些事情自知放不下, 也不能強迫自己放棄, 所以到頭來自己還是不開心, 就是那麼矛盾...人生苦短, 大家應該睇開D還是認真D呢?

sunshine part II

通常一個完美故事背後都一點點不如意的事情發生...就係正當本格格可以毫無顧慮地躺在沙灘上曬命之際, 突然有一隻UFO, 俗稱不明飛行物体(飛碟呀, 知唔知?), 以高速連風帶沙的飛向本格格右眼. 幸而本格格命大, 未有任何受傷報告, 亦多得身旁"睇得唔知打唔打得"既保標即場喝止UFO...講番正經, 在埸救生員巳多次announce 叫人不耍玩球及UFO 但D人都好少理...眼見身旁很多在曬命的人都晒食餅(波餅), 希望D年青人要有自律, 在擠迫的沙灘上請不要打球同玩UFO, 真係傷害到別人時就大家都唔開心架啦! 樂極生悲, 知道嗎?

sunshine

Thanks God for offering us a sunny Sunday today. Spending time under the Sun on the beach was the best thing I did today...got some sun tan...enjoying the scent of coppertone, sea, sand and sun...what a wonderful day I got after my recovery of sickness.

口齒

既然答應別人要做的事, 請務必去實踐, 不要令人呆等和失望.
若然自知做不來, 請也不要隨便答應別人, 同樣是令人失望的呢!
隨口而出的說話是多麼容易, 若口說的跟所做的不一致, 真的很令人沮喪!

還是倒下來 (小病是福?)

平日上班一切都是很正常的, 奈何放了一天假自己便病倒了, 感冒加發燒喉嚨發炎, 真的是一次過大陣象. 同事說我是一隻賤骨頭, 成日鍾意係公司做野, 好似好勤力咁, 叫我要balance一下, 否則會在退休後兩年sayonara...好驚啊!

賓賓美食

你有無去菲律賓人開的餐廳食飯呢? 食過菲律賓餐未? 不過可能你都食得多你家裏賓賓煮的食物...但係唔同架! 今日無端端跟左同事去左公司附近的一間小賓賓快餐店, 原來佢地既飯盒係好正架, 唔係只得乾過荷包的燒雞, 佢地有燜牛腩, 滷牛肉, 滷雞腿仔, 燒魚啦! 有汁又美味, 22蚊個大大飯盒都是一個不錯的alternative, 唔洗成日淨係食叉燒飯同焗豬啦!

越南妹与西瓜

每天上班打扮整齊預備出門時, 我的婆婆偶然都會向我品評一番, 每次她都會用最精簡的來給我意見, 是好是壞要靠你自己的領悟能力. 印象最深莫過於"越南妹", 話說本格格穿了一件其實是印度feel既及膝上衣加一條長褲, 當出門之際, 婆婆向我講"哎呀,成個越南妹!", 初時也不為意, 直到返到公司就越覺自己真是一副Vietnam 北漏道nite 打扮, 於是從此就將件衫收埋. 直至昨日, 穿了一條綠色啡色間條百褶裙上班, 被說"好似西瓜"(M 記hello kitty 扮西瓜那隻), 係唔知好嬲定好笑, 但係我選擇笑, 重要好大聲個隻, 跟住學會了催眠自己"我著乜都好睇架啦!係西瓜都係正西瓜啦!"...

賣座又叫好?

我們最近都以為湯告魯斯加史提芬史匹堡的"強戰世界", 絕對會是信心保證, sorry! 大家都請不要抱太大期望了. 用六十元去看"頭文字D"可能會開心一點, 這套所謂大製作, 可取的只是特技, 故事一點也不吸引, 太多情節很不合邏輯, 結局還落雨收柴, 真的令我們很失望.

順帶一提, 我們竟然今時今日還會在戲院內遇上"在播放電影途中聽電話"的人...my god, 到底你們何時才學會considerate 和尊重別人啊?

Let it rain!

這個六月不停的下大雨, 好耐都無見過太陽伯伯啦, 我真係好miss再見番佢. 每日都要帶住把姐, 又要帶多對鞋返工, 攪到自己好似一個走梗難既傻婆咁!

話說有一日, 中午突然見到sunshine, 於是乎興高采烈走出街買lunch 順便散下步, 一直都陽光普照, 但正當本格格過馬路之際 (于馬路中間的安全島上), 突然下起滂沱大雨 (真的非常之突然!), 自己幸好帶備一把遮才避過變濕水zi (zi 是雞的普通話發音). 而此際才發現原來我週邊的路人都無帶遮, 那時自已覺得有些不知所措, 應不應主動share 自己把姐給身邊的人呢? 但係又唔知幫得那個...就在這個idea閃過之際, 我身後有一位二十來歲的女仔跳向我身旁問"可唔可以遮埋我呀?", 我即刻笑住同佢講"無問題", 就是這樣她便跟我一起好合拍地走過馬路...過完馬路, 我問 "你往那邊走?", 她說"唔該晒, 我ok 架啦!" 原來她的男朋友就在馬路另一面等著她...

這一件小小的鎖事, 令我有說不出的舒暢...具体的是什么我也說不出來. 或者反映了自己想幫人的欲望得到了回應, 又或是連場大雨中一點點的sunshine和cheer up from God.

自己一個人

以前曾經有一個人跟我說"我想你自己一個人才自由快樂...", 那時我沒有什麼感覺, 那已經是四五年前的事. 其實在這五年裏面, 我想這句話都在某程度上是對的. 試想想, 一個人, 沒有伴, 沒有什么人要交代, 沒有需要花心思精神去討好別人, 自己可以隨心所欲, 自由自在地去做自己想做的事, 煩惱都少Ｄ, 很不錯呢!

若果你生命裏面多了一個人, 我想你怎樣也不可能再過自己一個人的生活吧( 若你是, 未免太自私了)! 若果你已經決定了選擇"一起"的自由快樂, 這种快樂當然是不同一個人的快樂啦! 那時候你會想將自己的不快和開心都跟他/她分享, 想他/她替你分憂也為你開心而開心, 什麼事也一起做, 自然地也會多了一些甜酸苦辣, 要付出的也自然多很多. 這看似易事, 其實一點也不易!!

無論你現在選擇一個人的快樂又或是兩個人分享的快樂, 我想最重要是你有沒有全心全意去認真對待. 如果要在兩者之間選擇一個, 我覺得很難, 一個人的快樂和兩個人的快樂是很不同呢! 以自己是一個很laid back很怕hurt的一個人, 我想一個人的自由快樂是比較好(不用怕被人hurt也不用付出太多心機)...oh sorry, 想想兩個人也不錯, 咪有人愛護你呢, 又有人鞭策你motivate 你.

不過世界每秒在變,我想一個人也是一樣吧!! 聽著王宛之的"一秒感動", 你可有感動?

本週 Wanchai 笑話一則

話說有一日當格格下班回家, 路經灣仔洛克道眾酒吧一帶. 一名北方佳麗(her nationanlity is very obvious!)向一名高大威猛的金髮外藉男子兜撘, 並用半鹹半淡英文說"I am Korean, Handsome.", 點知那位外藉男子大大聲用超級流利的普通話答"你是韓國人? 我知你是大陸人!", 此話一出, 北方佳麗當場語塞兼面有難色, 正當她知道兜撘失敗而急急轉身離去之際, Mr. Handsome 又大大聲兼笑笑口用普通話叫 (還大大動作的揮揮手, 場面似挽留北方佳麗) "喂! 那麼你是北韓人還是南韓人??".

thepersonals (crossover version)

Women wanting men, men wanting women, men wanting men, women wanting woemen, just friends??

係咪似曾相識? 這個題目已經再明顯不過啦! 相信你如果同我一樣咁"有時無聊", 你一定有睇過本土一份英文免費magazine, 你都會掀去睇入面"thepersonals"的classified, 都好entertaining 架! 尋日同我一位文化界好友傾計, 就由經典Ham Sup電影名講到登徵偶啟示. 我地不約而同都覺得篇擇偶啟示一定要精簡得來又要呼之欲出, 試住先:

英文version: It Might Be YOU.Intelligent, mature, down to earth and very good-looking Asian lady (30's/5 ft 7/53kg) seeks hot and well-built guy with sense of humour and a caring heart, mature & gentle, open-minded, able to share everything together or at least great moment, appearance is not VERY important, rich is a bonus...If you are serious, loyal and unattached, drop me a note.

中文version: 緣來是您!美貌与智慧並重單身材女 (年約30,身高5呎7吋, 53kg, 34-25-36)尋集"材、智、醒、爽、善" 成熟大方單身男子, 高大健碩及有經濟基礎者優先處理. 有意者請寄上相片一張以作參考.

問你點抵受得住?

By the way, 今次有幸与城中文化界熱爆"民人"首度攜手來個crossover, 真係好興奮呢! 睇你點抵(睇)?
尋"男(子漢)、高(IQ過我)、堅(強呀)、夾(得來)、(有內)涵"
from"痴(線或雌,好多時)、黑(臉,有時遮)、獨(立)、特(別,即係怪)、(易)激(動)"
(後解讀版)

最後,為答謝讀者多月來的支持, 現加插本土最後一位格格与民女之對話酬賓:
格格話:"問你點抵受得住?"
民女說:"唔諗唔知好過癮,原來真係好搞野!"
格格再話:"唔諗唔知自己頂得住, 原來可以再激D! I like your 激!

傻笑

最近我又pick up 番一件多年前常做的事, 就係自己一個人笑. 從前一聽軟硬天師既"老人院",就忍唔住笑, 尤真是打電話整鬼人, 打去KPS找鐵兜船長, Nike 找刀, 人人搬屋找那個舉起手指公既伯伯...想當年因為自己係住籠屋 (只擁有床位一個) 而又係住係上格的關係, 每當我夜媽媽听老人院時我都係我張上格床笑到抽晒根, 有時重忍唔住半夜三更爆笑,攪到我阿公以為我痴線. 如果你係我個年代, 你一定有共鳴啦!

直至最近我就會係返工架巴士上面傻笑, 咪聽"在晴朗的一天出發", 好多時都比阿海峰同君如笑死. 估唔咁咪又pick up 番自己一個人傻笑既事囉!

你夢想中的婚禮?

讀了一篇關于香港迪士尼舉辦婚禮的新聞報道, 實在有點驚訝其酒席收費的昂貴. 如果閣下十分狂戀米奇唐老鴨或者白雪公主 (而你身旁那個又ok 架話), 當然好啦! 一生人一次嘛!

但對於我而言, 我夢想中 (其實都唔係太清楚自己有無夢想過)的婚禮會是很簡單. 我不要一日換7套禮服, show 一般表演, 也不要整晚酒席中只能吃到幾片小乳豬兩啖魚翅, 回家還要煮個公仔麵燒夜…

我沒有一個specific夢想中的婚禮, 我想其實一個小小而又溫馨既婚禮己經很perfect, 有你最close的家人朋友見證已經好開心. 雖說現實結婚並不是絕對兩個人的事, 但若然你家人朋友都愛錫你的話, 他們都會理解同尊重你既感受, 絕對不用奢侈, 亦不用向其他世叔伯九姨婆交代. 我最想旅行結婚, 什麼也不用想, 快快飛去honeymoon 就好, 玩呀玩呀食呀食呀, 都不錯啊! 我的好朋友, 讀到此刻, 我知你而家想梗乜, 我等梗你呢!

Cooking Lesson

Yesterday was my second time for attending cooking class in my life. Can you believe it? I made a Blueberry cheese cake!! To me, cooking is like a very pleasant entertainment - you enjoy it because you are not not able to do it most of the time. If you have a chance to do it, you will precious that moment.

I seldom cook coz' I seldom have the chance to cook by living with my lovely grandparetns since childhood. My grandma owns the whole kitchen and I am not allowed to do anything serious there (except for cooking instant noodle). To be honest, I am not good at it but I enjoy the process (the taste is another issue of coz). During the cooking process, you can concentrate yourself to create the good things (you think that it is good by yourself though someone may not agree) and leave all trouble behinds.

Well, back to my blueberry cheesecake, it's DELICIOUS (no kidding!). I have to tell you it's a pleasure to see how my family enjoy my cake by finishing it without any hesitation (I bet some of them may fear of food poison but feel it's obliged to eat it...ha ha). Anyway, it makes me feel good.

For me, cooking is one of the way to please & pamper yourself (may be others as well). So...i will continue to treasure any "cooking" moment with my friends and family. BTW, Happy Mother's Day!!!

What am I doing here?

Okee, what is this? What am i doing here?
I was prompted by my "Master" today to create my own blogspot. Well, frankly speaking, I don't have much clue about what am i doing here but I think everyone should have their first time ma...

Have you ever done something that you are not too sure while your heart tell you to go ahead? I think I am feeling this now...just feeling excited to create this blog and hoping that I can get some fansssssssssssss to visit my blogspot...if there is none, I will...I will...I will...CONTINUE...ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

Let me say a special "Thank you" to my master for your patience and kindness. Without U, I can't survive last week. Also, to everyone who cares about me, thanks for your "spiritual" support to me ...wah...I started to sound like I am having a speech winning the Oscar!!! Hee Hee...