Active cells in my blood

Though I admit I am no longer a jet-setter now. Deep down in my heart and blood, I think I still remain with some active "jet-setter" cells there. How do I know? It's easy, when I feel bored, the first thing comes to my mind is "vacation". When I found my savings account looks bad, the first thing I feel upset is that "I can't go anywhere for vacation". Or when you see me started to stare at my pictures being taken during vacation in my album,you will know the cells are still active.

Remember the days I went to Sabah and Bangkok with my crazy groupie, we laughed like crazy and we had so much fun together. We could laugh on every little things and could not stop. This is not easy in our daily life, back to work and normal life in HK, I can't laugh on every little things, I seldom laugh like crazy as I do when I was in vacation.

What can i do? Ha ha ha...fly away la...ha ha!

Macau 自由行

最近與屋企人去了澳門一日遊, 大清早就在港澳碼頭集合. 有趣的是就在碼頭預備入閘之前, 其中一人無帶身份證, 於是她要回家取身份證再上船, 遲到好過無到. 還未試過去新落成的漁人碼頭, 一定耍去看看, 遠看還可以, 整体上是模仿埃及or阿拉伯建築, 入面有機動遊戲, 不過你會無興趣玩, 太幼稚了! 雖然入面還有商店及食肆, 可借貨品和食物也不大吸引, 到此一遊便算.

我最感安慰的是依舊水準保持一貫的好的澳門美食--my all-seasons favourite 蝦籽撈麵, 金莎鯪魚球, 蟹粥...到澳門遊其實都只不過單單為着吃一些價廉而又美味的食物罷, 同屋企人開開心心的一起逛逛, 其他玩什麼買什麽也一點都不重要.

美味關係

如果你看過中山美穗主演的"美味關係", 你一定不會忘記其中一幕, 就是當她喝了一碗很美味的高湯, 滿足得眼淚盈盈, 就是這個高湯的味度令她回憶起她爸爸生前所弄的高湯. 除了氣味, 食物也能喚醒一些回憶一些人和事. 我還記得小時候爸爸在weekend早上會給我做一份美味的生菜蕃茄三文治, 我就是開心的吃着看"飛天紅中俠". 還有公公抄的菜"韮黃抄瘦肉"和"豆腐蕃茄牛肉", 他還教我弄這兩度小菜實習. 婆婆煲的准山杞子湯和魚翅湯...就是我一生也不會忘記這些情景和味道, 這就是給我温暖和comfort的感覺, 就是一個"家"的感覺, 在那裹我可以沒有任何煩惱, 就是很滿足和温暖...我想我自己跟中山美穗一樣, 再吃一次的時候就是滿足和温暖得想流淚. 這就是我的comfort food.

M&W (crossover with TY)

忽然興起要同TY玩多次crossover, 題目是M&W, 經典又provoking 的題目. 我絕對相信人天生就是需要一個伴, 但是世代轉變, 現在獨身巳經是見怪不怪. 有趣的是我看見現在還有很多"恨嫁"的單身女(年約30 or above)在市面上流動, 可悲的是男人人口比女性少, 令到30以上的單身女性好似多了無形的壓力, 無拖拍無婚結就被列入老姑婆系列. 30歲以上獨身男人的處境比女人好得多, 無拖拍未結婚就被人叫鑽石王老五.

本人並非時刻要戀愛之人, 但每當我有拖拍時, 就會被列入"有異牲無人性"行列. 我當然覺得自己不是這類人(偶然間咋), 每當好友笑我時, 我都好接受, 因咁樣証明佢地幾咁重視我. 當我single的時候, 又都係佢地同我渡過, 一樣好開心. 所以我認為有無拖拍, 有愛人無愛人, 人都可以生存得好好, 随時適應環境嘛! 何況你還有friend和家人愛惜你, 何需強迫自己随波逐流, let it be!

情人節變了仇人節

本人先表明立場, 本人從來唔慶祝情人節 (縱使有情人or not), 因為覺得好老土&好無謂. 2月14日去街滿街都是”連體怪嬰”, 間間餐廳消費都sky high, 連一束普通玫瑰都動輒1000蚊, 好唔抵又好無謂. 我跟一眾女同事及朋友discuss Valentines’ Day, 我們(女人)大多數口話唔expect 情人節會有任何surprise, 但係心裹卻有少少盼望--想”佢會唔會真係送花比我呢?” , “佢會唔會比個surprise我呢?”, 跟住又自我安慰 “都係唔好啦, 浪費金錢, 送花比我都唔知擺邊好, 去食晚餐又貴…”
咁, 女人, 你究竟想点呀?

有趣的是今天的新聞提及有位男朋友訂了束花送去女友office, 但不幸間花店未能及時在office hour內送花到女友office, 於是乎男朋友為了表示自己”清白”, 要等女朋友放工一齊去花店理論及表明自己”有做野”. 所以你話, 情人節幾咁無謂…學同事A話, 情人節咪即係仇人節, 好地地又攪到唔開心的一個節日.

春田花花

咁快又過左個農曆新年, 今年小女子又約同三位好友大清早去花墟買花, 而家已經成了每年新年前的指定動作. 雖然當日落住密麻麻的雨水, 我地都好開心去揀花, 當一見到一朿束鮮花放滿整條街道, 什麼落雨濕身, 渴睡疲勞都暫時忘記. 最後小女子與朱主任一齊合力將廿枝劍蘭, 両朿百合, 五枝寸寸金捧回家…很重啊! 我地兩個都忍唔住在巴士上睡着…現在返到屋企一見到束花就會笑, 值得既!

BTW, 春田花花套戲都幾有趣呢, 去睇啦! 重有魔幻王國呀!

What a Wonderful World

I see trees of green, red roses too
I see them bloom for me and you
And I think to myself, what a wonderful world

I see skies of blue and clouds of white
The bright blessed day, the dark sacred night
And I think to myself, what a wonderful world

The colours of the rainbow, so pretty in the sky
Are also on the faces of people going by
I see friends shakin' hands, sayin' "How do you do?"
They're really saying "I love you"

I hear babies cryin', I watch them grow
They'll learn much more than I'll ever know
And I think to myself, what a wonderful world
Yes, I think to myself, what a wonderful world


George Weiss / Bob Thiele)
Louis Armstrong

說謊

誰人敢說自己從不說謊? 說謊是為了保護自己或別人? 是為了掩飾自己的錯失? 是為了逃避?
早前讀了一篇本地散文, 是一個從事廣告創作作者, 我很同意他的一個關於謊言的事實, 大家其實不用再執着那個人为什麼會說謊, 而是應該清楚明白說謊的後果 - 就是會將以前所說所作的真實事與大話一併賠上. 那是多麼的浪費啊! 還是少講為妙, ヌ或者最好唔再講大話啦.

Belgium chocolate

I love chocolate so much. Recently I found a new brand of chocolate which is so good. It's a Belgium chocolate and they claimed their chocolate is made everyday and being sent to HK by air almost everyday. I am sure their chocolates are so fresh, the taste is sooooooo good that I can't explain. Fresh chocolate is so tasty...milk chcolate, dark choclate with creme...

I started to fall in love with dark choclate lately - as said in some medical research, dark chocolate is good to health especially in preventing heart disease. As I guess I am easy to get heart attack, I am considering to take one dark choclate daily.

Weddings

Attended two weddings this week, they both are unbelievably touching! One wedding is my best friend's wedding, the couple have been together 15 years and finally they get married, I can see how happy and joyful they are. They have been experienced so many ups and downs which I also witnessed their love life myself. I just can't describe how happy I am for them seeing them to get married finally.

Another wedding I was so touched by the couple's effort to make the ceremony so cozy and warm. They are perfect couple, one is pretty and one is smart. And they went to a studio to record a song and contribute to their parents in the wedding. I was so touched by their love, the feeling is so warm.

May I wish these two couples "Love forever, no matter sad or happy, respect and love each other in their lives, blessings with them always".

Laugh

Tonight I have a very nice gathering with bro and sis, it's just a simple and warm gathering. We have so much fun tonight, we laugh a lot! It's just wonderful to laugh...I think I have not laughed freely for long I guess. It's wonderful and cheerful! Wishing everyone is cheerful, wearing the smiley faces everyday!

Mysterious

Some people do things mysteriously, you will never understand their motives and they may never tell you. If you meet someone like this, i would suggest you try to stay away from them whenever possible, it's so exhausting to deal with them. However, in most situations, you have no choice but have to deal with them directly.

Hmm...how to deal with them? May be you have to make yourself mysterious too in order to deal with them...try to be nonsense (no logic behind), try not to care anything related to this kind of people, they can drive you nuts and make your life miserable. Remember to pamper yourself now...life is too short!

A different birthday

Today is a very different birthday to me. I bought myself a birthday cake (the first time in my life) and shared with my lovely colleagues while anti WTO demonstrations were happening around us, bought myself some little gifts when I was wondering at PP, grab an afternoon tea at M Kee by myself, receiving SMS from my best friends, one of them sent me a Donald Duck in the SMS which made me happy, "Sand Chai Keung" kindly bought me a new mobile phone as birthday gift, having dinner at Korean restaurant, seeing massaging chairs at department store...

I missed the birthday dinner with my best friends, my families, I love them so much.
Look at this, my OWN birthday cake (chcolate mousse), yummy!!!

Special thanks to Sand Chai Keung sponsoring my mobile phone and be patience with me, millions of thanks to my best friends who are so caring to me, countless thanks to my grandparents, Daddy and Mom, Uncle Four and my cousins who remember my birthday...I love you all. My tears are coming down, I am so thankful!!! I really love you all.

A choice between work harder or lazy

Universal truth is that if you do not work hard, you will not get the result that you want (little kid do understand this too).This is true to love, friendship, study, work and every aspect of your life.

To maintain relationships between your partners, friends, family and the ones you care and love, you have to work hard and give out your caring and heart, then it will grow. Just like caring of your plant, you know you have to water your plant, fertilize it, show it under sunshine, cut the yellow leaves and keep doing all these actions (these actions are not just actions, they include your heart and caring). And you will find your plant grow so fast, so strong and so beautiful!

It's a very simple thing, right? Think about if we are lazy, we do not water and care the plant anymore, expecting it will grow on its own or expecting someone will help you to maintain your plant...friends, let's work hard and don't be lazy.

Another star of the month (a week after XX stop)

I tell myself to write something at the morning of Dec15th to memorize.

I got two small surprises in advance on Dec 14th. I received the first "Happy Birthday" from my friend on the phone on Dec 14th, when she said that to me, I just could not able to react right away coz it's very unexpected (dun know why).

And the second surprise is that my friend asked me "What is your birthday wish?", oh, I never thought about that...so at that moment, my brain is working hard to get the answer for this question. Can I have more than one birthday wish? I want to stay happy, healthy and stay close to God, finishing my study nice and fast, clearing all my rubbish very soon.

If I can only have one birthday wish, I wish I can stay happy I guess.

Fancy again

I heard someone bought a $8000 LV handbag and a pair of boots at $7000, it's a WOW for me!!

This reminds me the movie "Pretty Woman". The most fascinating part for me at that time was Richard Gere brought Julia Roberts to different brand shops to shop, it's the first WOW for me! Julia does not need to pay a penny for the nice evening gown, shoes, dresses, handbags, jewellery...ha ha ha...the reality is I never fancy this would happening to me coz I am not Julia Roberts in the movie(u know what i mean!) plus I know I am not that kind person who enjoy that much, I feel shy and guilty if someone offer this to me (believe it or not)...but if this happens to me once (even in the dream), that would be fun...ha ha ha!!

OK, dream over. Now I really fancy a relaxing and nice vacation where I can just sleep, eat, go to a cooking or dancing class and wonder around freely, no phone calls, leaving all worries behind. Yeah...I think deep inside me I am still a jet setter!

Proof

Just watched the movie "Proof" yesterday, it's not a great movie but it worths to think through the idea brought by this movie. If you trust someone, no matter what you say or do, there is no need to get a proof, you just trust him or her. However, if you do not trust someone, you will need to get proof to prove that he or she is honest.

Some stuff you can prove in this world but some cannot be proved...like love. How to prove you love someone? How to prove you are honest? There are stuff like that you can't bring out any physical proof...what can you do? Life can be hard if you want to get proof on everything. But how can you lie to yourself?

Bbbbusy

Busy is the useful weapon to refuse someone. You can use it to turn down any requests, say dinner, meeting or a date. Busy can cut off all communication with someone. Just say "Busy" and the other person will know that he or she needs to stop communicating with you, how convenient and easy to use!!

轉寄: 真正愛你的男人

今天朋友轉寄了一篇email, 值得看看...究竟你見過這樣的男人未? 我諗都係你男友or老公...有都幾sweet啦!!! 不過買棉花那一項也有點可怕, 才不用他幫你買啦! 佢幫你買都有點支持不了啊! "偷偷的為妳做了很多事，卻從來不和你邀功的人" 豈不是可愛到不得了?

真正愛你的男人，是 ....
抱起來很溫暖，囉唆起來很煩，在身邊討厭，看不見又很懷念的人。
吃剩下一半的麵不要浪費，他會接過去幫妳吃乾淨的人。
大冰腳貼在他大腿弄暖，他即使很冷，也不會把妳腳踢開的人。
一起去大賣場買東西，總是比妳多提兩大袋，還要空出手牽妳的人。
逛街，總是從頭到尾『良性勸導』妳不要亂花錢的人。
月經來，抓到妳偷吃紅豆冰，會很生氣罵妳的人。
妳生大病，他卻比你還要辛苦的人。
出門前，妳相信他的眼光多於鏡子的一個人。
把買衛生棉已經當成每個月記得採買的男人。
吵完架做錯事，還會厚臉皮跑來牽妳手的人。
過了N週年的戀愛紀念日後，就會忘記情人節、聖誕節存在的人。
為了看現場轉播的棒球大聯盟，敢把可愛的妳推到旁邊涼的人。
很少送妳花，卻常愛送妳垃圾袋、衛生棉、水果...的人。
沒事一定會窩在妳家，有事還是窩在妳家，讓妳開始懷疑他是不是沒有朋友的人。
最喜歡看妳開心的大笑，然後也對著妳傻笑的人。
漏接妳電話，就會打爆妳手機的人。
養妳吃飯、養妳看電影、養妳買小東西，動不動就開始為以後練習怎樣包養妳的人。
最害怕討厭聽到妳啜泣，只要聽到妳哭，還是會不辭千里的飛奔到妳身邊的人。
偷偷的為妳做了很多事，卻從來不和你邀功的人。
已經認為自己的手臂是枕頭的人。
膽敢會和妳搶遙控器，最後卻只能陪妳看慾望城市的人。
老是可以讓周遭好朋友感到好奇的人。
他一不在，妳就會心煩意亂心不在焉，而開始很想念他的人 ...
親愛的女人...
你身邊若有這樣一個男人...妳一定要珍惜...

Little things

This is to memorize the warm little things that happened to me this week...just a simple "greetings" SMS can make me feel great. Just a little chat can make me feel good. Just a little bit of caring can make people feel so good. I appreciate your gentle caring and loving!