Weddings

Attended two weddings this week, they both are unbelievably touching! One wedding is my best friend's wedding, the couple have been together 15 years and finally they get married, I can see how happy and joyful they are. They have been experienced so many ups and downs which I also witnessed their love life myself. I just can't describe how happy I am for them seeing them to get married finally.

Another wedding I was so touched by the couple's effort to make the ceremony so cozy and warm. They are perfect couple, one is pretty and one is smart. And they went to a studio to record a song and contribute to their parents in the wedding. I was so touched by their love, the feeling is so warm.

May I wish these two couples "Love forever, no matter sad or happy, respect and love each other in their lives, blessings with them always".

Laugh

Tonight I have a very nice gathering with bro and sis, it's just a simple and warm gathering. We have so much fun tonight, we laugh a lot! It's just wonderful to laugh...I think I have not laughed freely for long I guess. It's wonderful and cheerful! Wishing everyone is cheerful, wearing the smiley faces everyday!

Mysterious

Some people do things mysteriously, you will never understand their motives and they may never tell you. If you meet someone like this, i would suggest you try to stay away from them whenever possible, it's so exhausting to deal with them. However, in most situations, you have no choice but have to deal with them directly.

Hmm...how to deal with them? May be you have to make yourself mysterious too in order to deal with them...try to be nonsense (no logic behind), try not to care anything related to this kind of people, they can drive you nuts and make your life miserable. Remember to pamper yourself now...life is too short!

A different birthday

Today is a very different birthday to me. I bought myself a birthday cake (the first time in my life) and shared with my lovely colleagues while anti WTO demonstrations were happening around us, bought myself some little gifts when I was wondering at PP, grab an afternoon tea at M Kee by myself, receiving SMS from my best friends, one of them sent me a Donald Duck in the SMS which made me happy, "Sand Chai Keung" kindly bought me a new mobile phone as birthday gift, having dinner at Korean restaurant, seeing massaging chairs at department store...

I missed the birthday dinner with my best friends, my families, I love them so much.
Look at this, my OWN birthday cake (chcolate mousse), yummy!!!

Special thanks to Sand Chai Keung sponsoring my mobile phone and be patience with me, millions of thanks to my best friends who are so caring to me, countless thanks to my grandparents, Daddy and Mom, Uncle Four and my cousins who remember my birthday...I love you all. My tears are coming down, I am so thankful!!! I really love you all.

A choice between work harder or lazy

Universal truth is that if you do not work hard, you will not get the result that you want (little kid do understand this too).This is true to love, friendship, study, work and every aspect of your life.

To maintain relationships between your partners, friends, family and the ones you care and love, you have to work hard and give out your caring and heart, then it will grow. Just like caring of your plant, you know you have to water your plant, fertilize it, show it under sunshine, cut the yellow leaves and keep doing all these actions (these actions are not just actions, they include your heart and caring). And you will find your plant grow so fast, so strong and so beautiful!

It's a very simple thing, right? Think about if we are lazy, we do not water and care the plant anymore, expecting it will grow on its own or expecting someone will help you to maintain your plant...friends, let's work hard and don't be lazy.

Another star of the month (a week after XX stop)

I tell myself to write something at the morning of Dec15th to memorize.

I got two small surprises in advance on Dec 14th. I received the first "Happy Birthday" from my friend on the phone on Dec 14th, when she said that to me, I just could not able to react right away coz it's very unexpected (dun know why).

And the second surprise is that my friend asked me "What is your birthday wish?", oh, I never thought about that...so at that moment, my brain is working hard to get the answer for this question. Can I have more than one birthday wish? I want to stay happy, healthy and stay close to God, finishing my study nice and fast, clearing all my rubbish very soon.

If I can only have one birthday wish, I wish I can stay happy I guess.

Fancy again

I heard someone bought a $8000 LV handbag and a pair of boots at $7000, it's a WOW for me!!

This reminds me the movie "Pretty Woman". The most fascinating part for me at that time was Richard Gere brought Julia Roberts to different brand shops to shop, it's the first WOW for me! Julia does not need to pay a penny for the nice evening gown, shoes, dresses, handbags, jewellery...ha ha ha...the reality is I never fancy this would happening to me coz I am not Julia Roberts in the movie(u know what i mean!) plus I know I am not that kind person who enjoy that much, I feel shy and guilty if someone offer this to me (believe it or not)...but if this happens to me once (even in the dream), that would be fun...ha ha ha!!

OK, dream over. Now I really fancy a relaxing and nice vacation where I can just sleep, eat, go to a cooking or dancing class and wonder around freely, no phone calls, leaving all worries behind. Yeah...I think deep inside me I am still a jet setter!

Proof

Just watched the movie "Proof" yesterday, it's not a great movie but it worths to think through the idea brought by this movie. If you trust someone, no matter what you say or do, there is no need to get a proof, you just trust him or her. However, if you do not trust someone, you will need to get proof to prove that he or she is honest.

Some stuff you can prove in this world but some cannot be proved...like love. How to prove you love someone? How to prove you are honest? There are stuff like that you can't bring out any physical proof...what can you do? Life can be hard if you want to get proof on everything. But how can you lie to yourself?

Bbbbusy

Busy is the useful weapon to refuse someone. You can use it to turn down any requests, say dinner, meeting or a date. Busy can cut off all communication with someone. Just say "Busy" and the other person will know that he or she needs to stop communicating with you, how convenient and easy to use!!

轉寄: 真正愛你的男人

今天朋友轉寄了一篇email, 值得看看...究竟你見過這樣的男人未? 我諗都係你男友or老公...有都幾sweet啦!!! 不過買棉花那一項也有點可怕, 才不用他幫你買啦! 佢幫你買都有點支持不了啊! "偷偷的為妳做了很多事，卻從來不和你邀功的人" 豈不是可愛到不得了?

真正愛你的男人，是 ....
抱起來很溫暖，囉唆起來很煩，在身邊討厭，看不見又很懷念的人。
吃剩下一半的麵不要浪費，他會接過去幫妳吃乾淨的人。
大冰腳貼在他大腿弄暖，他即使很冷，也不會把妳腳踢開的人。
一起去大賣場買東西，總是比妳多提兩大袋，還要空出手牽妳的人。
逛街，總是從頭到尾『良性勸導』妳不要亂花錢的人。
月經來，抓到妳偷吃紅豆冰，會很生氣罵妳的人。
妳生大病，他卻比你還要辛苦的人。
出門前，妳相信他的眼光多於鏡子的一個人。
把買衛生棉已經當成每個月記得採買的男人。
吵完架做錯事，還會厚臉皮跑來牽妳手的人。
過了N週年的戀愛紀念日後，就會忘記情人節、聖誕節存在的人。
為了看現場轉播的棒球大聯盟，敢把可愛的妳推到旁邊涼的人。
很少送妳花，卻常愛送妳垃圾袋、衛生棉、水果...的人。
沒事一定會窩在妳家，有事還是窩在妳家，讓妳開始懷疑他是不是沒有朋友的人。
最喜歡看妳開心的大笑，然後也對著妳傻笑的人。
漏接妳電話，就會打爆妳手機的人。
養妳吃飯、養妳看電影、養妳買小東西，動不動就開始為以後練習怎樣包養妳的人。
最害怕討厭聽到妳啜泣，只要聽到妳哭，還是會不辭千里的飛奔到妳身邊的人。
偷偷的為妳做了很多事，卻從來不和你邀功的人。
已經認為自己的手臂是枕頭的人。
膽敢會和妳搶遙控器，最後卻只能陪妳看慾望城市的人。
老是可以讓周遭好朋友感到好奇的人。
他一不在，妳就會心煩意亂心不在焉，而開始很想念他的人 ...
親愛的女人...
你身邊若有這樣一個男人...妳一定要珍惜...

Little things

This is to memorize the warm little things that happened to me this week...just a simple "greetings" SMS can make me feel great. Just a little chat can make me feel good. Just a little bit of caring can make people feel so good. I appreciate your gentle caring and loving!

世事無常

今天在街上碰到一個朋友. 他与太太結婚2年, 刚刚上年才誕下一個BB仔, 現在已經1歲多. 可惜的這個朋友今天跟我說他們刚離婚, 他說遲一點再跟我詳談. 那一刻真的很感慨, 為什麼呢? 還有一個無辜的小孩. 成年人, 結婚是一生一世的約, 不是玩啊! 既是決定一起, 有問題不是一起去努力解決麼? 真的無辦法麼? 或者Promise 的定意已經改變了, 再不是大家努力去維繫, 有困難便說bye bye, 太兒嬉了! 還有無辜的小孩...這個世代的價值觀真的不同了, 大家請努力吧!

Speechless

Lost my voice for 2 days. Feeling helpless and uesless...not able to work properly at work, home or anywhere. Everyone told me "Don't speak.", my client said "Oh, you lost your voice, take care". I replied "thank q..." not sure if they heard what i have said.

Friend reminds me today "Silence is gold". This can be true in some situations...but when will I speak again? That's worrying...I am speechless...

A choice

Last week I had a horrible experience in the lift. When I was going out for lunch with Chu Goo Luck on the lift. The lift suddenly jumped from 13th floor to 10th floor and shaking. I was so panic and started to grasp my colleague's arm, I am so scarced. At that moment, my mind was thinking "Will I die here?" for a second. Thankful to God, we were safe at last by stepping out from the lift on 9th floor.

After arrived safely on earth, Chu Goo Luck said to me "Life is unpredictable like this, you never know what happen to you tomorrow or the next few minutes, why not choose to stay happy and enjoy things now?" . Indeed, a word of wisdom to remind myself.

Lose weight

I found myself lose weight these few weeks coz now I can fit into a tiny skirt and tiny jeans which I was not able to wear them before. Moreover, I found that my current pants are loose to wear. To certain point, that's good news- i can wear those clothes that I thought I could not wear them before. The bad news is I lose weight - I look like a skinny skeleton more now.

You will never found how pressure can affect a person's health. So try not to give too much pressure to yourself. I guess I am the victim of giving myself too much pressure on work, study and life.

Dear Friends, no matter what, I wish we all can stay healthy and happy. Love yourself.

Woman/Man in love

When woman in love, she looks sweet and pretty (at least in most cases it is true).
When man in love, he looks carefree and fat (at least half the cases it is true).

When woman in love, she accepts all "yuk ma" words without hesitation.
When man in love, he speaks all those "yuk ma" words without hesitation.

When woman in love, she thinks the world is just two of them.
When man in love, he thinks the world is too small...

Love needs mutual understanding, patience, time, effort to keep.
Love is carefree, warm, trust, honest, respect...right?

Boss and Me

Working late at office tonight with my boss. Since 6pm to 8pm, we have not talked to each other and we seems like not noticing each other even existed. Then he suddenly came over to me and said "Oh, I can't stand anymore." and I said "Why are u still here?". He looked at me with a surprise expression "I was working!". I said "Me too". Ha ha ha...then he told me to leave soon and asked me to take time off soon (but he adds on that there is no way I can get it next week coz my Director is coming to visit us). So...it's a kind of "bullshit" between us...anyway, I just don't know what is he doing in office...may be it's the "Strategic" things, who knows?

Please...

Please shut your mouth if you are talking nonsense.
Please say yes or keep quiet if you have no idea.
Please close your eyes if you don't want to see it.
Please try not to feel too much if you are too sensitive.
Please keep your words if you did say it.
Please be good to the ones if you really love them.
Please be honest if you are not a lier.
Please stay happy if life is too short.

Please, please, please...

Brainwash

Brainwash you are going to have a better future with you current job.
Brainwash you are going to have a nice home to stay in the coming years.
Brainwash you are confident to face everyone in this world.
Brainwash you are pretty and intelligent.
Brainwash you are friendly and nice.
Brainwash you are honest and sincere.
Brainwash you will have someone (at least 1) to understand you in this world.
Brainwash you will always feel peaceful and happy.

Note: Brainwash is only be used when you find that you are not able to do something successfully. It is only a tool, please do not brainwash yourself that this is the truth.

Simple World

My world is simple and I always live in a simple world, my family, my friends, they are all genuine and simple. I am tired and feeling helpless in handling complicated things in the complicated world. No more mind game. I am freaking tired...I have been thinking too much for myself and others, too much that I can't breathe. I care too much, care too much if I can affect others, care too much if I let people down, care if I make people unhappy...

Too much...too much...I want to go home, the place that I can feel safe.